One of the things I’ve learnt is our weaknesses, brokenness and realness can be used.
I used to think being broken and weak was something to be steered clear of. But I’ve found it’s often in my weakness, brokenness and realness that I connect best with people, inspire people, and help people deal with the very things I struggle or struggled with.
People appreciate empathy and compassion. They appreciate being understood. They appreciate knowing others have gone through the same things they have. I know I appreciate all these things in my struggles and it’s often through weaknesses and brokenness that we develop these things.
Just knowing you’re not alone in something is the most comforting thing.
So I’m encouraged by weakness because it can be used. We are not worthless or useless in our weakness. We don’t have to hide our weaknesses or ourselves. Be seen, share out that weakness with a caring heart that wants to lift others up; it is a beautiful thing.
And it is needed. We all have different weaknesses. Let not one person feel alone in theirs. Let not one person feel useless in theirs.
Sometimes it’s in our openness, our honesty and vulnerability – when we are weak – that we can be a strength to others.